Maria asked in Social SciencePsychology · 5 months ago

I have a deep fear of the person I am with being gay. Has anyone else suffered with this?

My ex boyfriend (we were together 6 years) was hiding a secret life on a gay app from me. I never went to counseling for this. Now a year later I am having panic that every man I meet will be gay. Has anyone gone through this before? I am starting therapy next week (thank god) but I cant stop these intrusive thoughts and OCD.

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  • Anonymous
    5 months ago

    Anti-anxiety meds. It's an irrational feeling.

  • 5 months ago

    I'm sorry this happened to you.

    The therapy may help.

    But you need to move on even though it's tough.

    • Maria5 months agoReport

      Thank you for your kind words. Sometimes its good to hear from someone else that I need to move on.

  • Fuhr
    Lv 6
    5 months ago

    If they have the volleyball scene from Top Gun as their screensaver, you should be fine. That means they are totally straight.

    • Fuhr
      Lv 6
      5 months agoReport

      Yes. But not as bad as a Mike Pence poster.

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