How to compromise with my husband on planning for the weekend?

My husband never plans anything fun for us to do on weekend that we all like. He knows I love family outings, our 10 yr old is always game, we just have to introduce new things or places to go to him. My husband is just content to sit on the couch and watch tv all day. I don't have any friends with young kids to plan stuff with. When I tell my husband we should go out, he says we can go to the beach. I don't enjoy going to the beach. I like going to the city where there are different things to see. We live 40 minutes to Los Angeles. He grew up in LA. He was not like this before I married him.

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  • 6 months ago
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    You need to be the one making the plans. Include him and just do it.

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  • 6 months ago

    he does plan - going to the beach. u re the one turning him down and not proposing anything in return. and visiting city of los angeles in summer? with a child? are u crazy or smth? the heat, the crowds of people - horror. in summer people should go to a beach

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  • 6 months ago

    Why do you want him to plan anything if you are going to label his ideas as " boring "?

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