How do you cope not looking as good as other guys?

i'm a man in my early forties who has been through a lot, and it has aged me quite a bit in my face, i'm also bald, have a moustache and wear hoodies, black jeans mostly. but compared to some other men i see walking the street, i feel i don't look half as good as them....some guys i see have good... show more i'm a man in my early forties who has been through a lot, and it has aged me quite a bit in my face, i'm also bald, have a moustache and wear hoodies, black jeans mostly.

but compared to some other men i see walking the street, i feel i don't look half as good as them....some guys i see have good looks, their clothes suit them well....they have good shoes and footwear.

where as i am a man with minor disfigurements, a ravaged thumbnail through excessive biting, a crooked disjointed little finger through an injury years ago.

and i just don't look as good anymore, certainly not as the other men i see.

how can i help it? or deal with it?
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