Should I move in with my father?

My mothers house is huge, but the boiler has been broken for four years and the house is growing with mould. My mother struggles for money and constantly looks after her 30 year old daughters son, who leaves mess everywhere and distracts me from my studies with his loud noise. My mother also has no sense of... show more My mothers house is huge, but the boiler has been broken for four years and the house is growing with mould. My mother struggles for money and constantly looks after her 30 year old daughters son, who leaves mess everywhere and distracts me from my studies with his loud noise. My mother also has no sense of personal space and feeds me all kinds of awful and unhealthy meals, which i’m not proud of. I am only thirteen and my dad is offering me a good life at his home and instead I visit my mother at the weekend, where I can concentrate and not live in a house that looks like a tip. What should I do?
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