On the issue of "Sex" in what currently passes for the conventions of a progressively civilized society a common irony is how disrespectful it is considered to offer money to a woman as motivation to have sex.
Since it's presumed that a 'Respectable' women will have sex for Free,,, if she wants to, & on her own terms for her own reasons with or without any justification.
Another irony though is the presumption that Women actually enjoy sex as much as Men do.
Though seemingly preferring NOT to enjoy it as often.
With or without any justification for 'That' either.
I don't recall that it's ever been a well kept secret that men typically spend their hard earned resources on whatever they need or want expecting to get what they've paid for.
And that virtually every expenditure is considered an investment in something he either wants to consume or speculate on a profitable return.
So,,if he was your Husband he'd of course according to common conventions be obligated to provide you with economic support, either with or without sex since in Marriage that is typically the commonly implied contract.
It would appear that since he's still just your BF and not your Husband, he's decided that the Pryor economic & intimate arrangement of your relationship is no longer as "Cost effective" as is used to be without sex.
Unless your presumption is that he should continue to provide you with the same economic advantages you previously enjoyed with the sex,
and that the provision should be considered a motivation to continue your willingness to Marry him, your question makes little sense.
Since it appears that in holding him to his suggestion that any more sex should wait till marriage, your both obviously reaping what you sow & getting what you've paid for.
Hence, neither of you should have any reason to feel shortchanged or any less respected.
The reason sex & money are so notorious for complicating relationships.
You've actually discovered the leading cause of Divorce & it didn't even take the statistically average 3 to 5 years of marriage to figure it out.
You can either stop eating eachother's words & just go back to the way things were.
You can just continue with the way things are until one or both of you gets tired of playing the stupid games with each'other!
· 1 month ago