Would you forgive someone for stopping talking to you?
After they misunderstood the favour you did for them, by proving their boyfriend could cheat on them. She hasn’t spoken to me for like 5 months. Should I forgive her for that attitude. She was going through a bit I guess??
- AnnLv 63 months agoBest answer
I've forgiven those members of my family who have--and you should too. Forgiveness is not about the other person; it's about you not having hatred in your heart. If she couldn't accept that you were looking out for her best interest, that's her problem.
- FoofaLv 73 months ago
She didn't want to believe he'd cheat and you were a sh*t for making it happen. She's naive and sad, but you're downright evil. It's not for you to forgive since you're the one who erred. The only reason someone would conspire to ruin a friend's relationship is out of jealousy.
- PearlLv 73 months ago
depends on why they stopped talking to me
- StanLv 73 months ago
Time to sit down and have a chat, don't you think? ;-)
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- marys.mommaLv 73 months ago
Some people wouldn't consider that a favour at all. That was her own problem, and you only made it worse.
I think that yes, you should forgive her. Find out from another source what became of that romance, and whichever way it has turned out (they're back together, or they've broken up for ever), apologize for getting into her personal business back then.
Don't mention "forgiveness", since from her point of view you were the one who caused her great distress at the time.
- gLv 73 months ago
Unless you set her boyfriend up and messed with him yourself ...
- MarkLv 73 months ago
Only if I understood why they did such
a thing or if I really didn't care about this
person 1 but at all than maybe too.