My husband asked a female friend when I can’t make the cruise with him. Am I crazy to be upset?
My husband and I booked a 7 day cruise with honeymoon room, non refundable. I can’t make it anymore due to unforeseen visa issues. After checking with a few friends he asked a female friend of his, whom we’ve had multiple arguments about. I clearly communicated I wasn’t comfortable with her and he showed understanding. She ended up couldn’t make the dates neither but I’m super upset about it. If she said yes he’s gonna just stay in the same room with her and maybe just one king bed on a cruise for 7 days and expect me to be ok with it?? I don’t even know how to start the argument that’s just so against even common sense to me. How should I approach this?
- Brother XLv 511 months agoFavourite answer
"After checking with a few friends he asked a female friend of his, whom we’ve had multiple arguments about."
So his other friends couldn't make it then he asked this one? What have the arguments been about?
If you're jealous and insecure that's your issue not his.
Anyway, why not just put effort into selling the tickets rather than finding a replacement for you? I wouldn't want to go on a cruise without my wife but I can't just throw money away either.
- sheloves_dabluesLv 711 months ago
You are not crazy. Your husband is a focking loser.
- 11 months ago
This has to be a troll. No husband is that dumb.
- Barb OuthereLv 711 months ago
I would have just canceled the cruise, collected any refund and taken a different holiday, one that you could both have enjoyed, but I guess that is just me. If there was no refund I would have tried to sell the cruise to another couple and recouped some money that way.
There is no way I would accept my husband sharing a honeymoon suite with anyone but me.
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- pit bulls biteLv 711 months ago
sounds like hanky panky
- PDLv 611 months ago
You have two choices. Go or shut yer yap hole. Who cares? If he's married to you it's just sex with this other woman. You're unwilling to go, so what's the problem?
- Guru HankLv 711 months ago
That is grounds for divorce.
- UniverseoneLv 711 months ago
Divorce him bc he is cheating with the female riend.
- AnaLv 611 months ago
First of all, how do you know that she’s actually not going to secretly come? He probably just told you that she couldn’t come (or had her text pretending like she couldn’t come) so that you would calm down and get off his case.
But I agree with you, that’s completely unacceptable and he clearly wanted to cheat. But at the same time, you’re screwing up with your visa issues and I can see why he was pissed off. You both need to get on your A game