Should she leave?

My best friend has 4 sons and a husband. Her oldest is 21 a high school drop out a pothead with a major attitude hates authority and has no respect for his parents. Everthing she tells him not to do he does. He speaks badly to his girlfriend as well. He thinks nothing is wrong with him. He never made anything... show more My best friend has 4 sons and a husband.

Her oldest is 21 a high school drop out a pothead with a major attitude hates authority and has no respect for his parents. Everthing she tells him not to do he does. He speaks badly to his girlfriend as well. He thinks nothing is wrong with him. He never made anything easy. He fought about doing homework, having a tutor, having to clean, having to fold clothes, having to be places on time etc. He can't keep a job. He doesn't follow through on any responsibilities (wash dishes, take out garbage etc). If he does have money he won't use it on his bills. His phone is in his girlfriends name. He's the type to tell you what he wants to do and he expects you to adapt. He's been locked up shortly for stealing and had a year to pay a 700 fine and he didnt do it. Sometimes he says he needs help but he never takes it. He usually says this after getting thrown out the house for disrespect. He's stolen and pawned his mother's items with no remorse. He never says sorry. He constantly tells them they are not always right and they don't know everything. He's really skinny she thinks he has an eating disorder. He thinks his parents are against him because we don't see things in his way. She's sad because the bad times outweigh the good times. She doesn't know where she went wrong. Sadly she can't think of anything he's good at.
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