how to stop adult stepdaughter hating me for no reason?
- Anonymous10 months ago
Don't force her to like you when she doesn't, leave her alone.
You aren't her mother and you aren't her stepmom in her eyes, but just a woman her dad married.Source(s): Personal experience I HATE my dads wife and refuse to acknowledge her
- Pearl LLv 710 months ago
just talk to her about it and try to work things out
- KTJoeLv 710 months ago
Say to stepdaughter "I love you" then walk away.
- Judy and CharlieLv 710 months ago
Easy answer: YOU SIT DOWN ONE ON ONE AND YOU TALK TO HER!
Unless you know what motivates the hatred, you cannot correct it or reason about it. You are the older one. YOU should be the one to invite her to talk and open the conversation and remain nonjudgmental.