This has got to be a troll. There is no other explanation. Speaking for white men, they basically break down into three groups.
1) *** Men. These are the minority. They prefer a woman's butt and legs, as her most attractive sexual feature. But that's only about 25% of the white male population. Among those, SOME of them prefer women with small breasts, also.
2) Breast men. These are the majority. They prefer a woman's boobs as her most attractive sexual feature. In particular, most of these guys are looking for LARGE first, and well-shaped, second. If you're a woman with large breasts, way more than 50% of the white male population is looking for YOU...to date, to marry, whatever...
3) The third set would be the subset of type 1, these are the guys who want to marry a woman with a nice *** and very tiny breasts. But they are so rare, that they are kind of hard to find. You are looking at less than 1% of the white male population. So it's really only two groups, see.
Girls who are smallish up top often feel very insecure as they tend to get IGNORED by most men, and white men in particular.
Any woman who is really DDD will have more male attention from white men in particular than she can handle. She won't be looking to reduce her breast size to attract a man. If anything, she will want a breast reduction because she's already getting too much attention from the opposite sex.
That's why I call troll. Either what you write is untrue, or there is something else about you that makes you unattractive to white males. Because white males for the most part are definitely not looking for small boobs. And definitely not to marry them...