I think your punishment should be that the device you're using to communicate should be taken away. In fact, all electronic means of communication should be taken from you, and you must not be allowed on this, or any other similar site, ever again. Then, while you are without your electronic connection to the outside world, you can do some reading. Start by learning what a pedophile is, because if you think it's a boy and girl holding hands, you're going to be calling the "law" every time you see a couple walking together doing just that. Then, get some help for the fixation you have concerning boys and girls together, and fathers that take revenge on the boys--doesn't sound too healthy to me.