Why won’t she forgive me when I’ve forgiven her?

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There’s an ex friend I fell out with, 4 years ago.  She ended our friendship because in all fairness, I messed up.  It was my fault.  I was too needy and she got sick of me.  I left her alone for the next several years and in that time, she repeated something I had said in confidence to my ex boyfriend, a friend of hers, to my best friend’s girlfriend.  A secret from my past that she then told other people.  I forgave her for that, too.  Which is worse than what I did.  Especially since she didn’t talk to me first about it.  She’s polite now but still holds a grudge.  I don’t get it, because I never hold grudges.

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you need to ask her this question