Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 months ago

I have a crush on a guy. He is Bi and has a crush on a guy. I told him. He just wanted to stay friends. how can i get him to say yes?

2 Answers

  • Janet
    Lv 7
    9 months ago
    Favourite answer

    You cannot get him to say yes. He is just not attracted to you, and for guys attraction is everything. And there is nothing you can do about it.

    But take heart: psychologists tell us that the stronger the crush is in the beginning, the more it is based on fantasy and the worse any actual relationship would turn out to be. Crushes never predict relationship success or relationship happiness, even if there is a strong infatuation at first this never lasts.

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    He probably won't feel free to date someone else until he stops crushing on this other person. But that doesn't necessarily mean the next person he chooses to date will be you.

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