Is this controlling behaviour? ?

Gf told me that my tattoo on my arm of an ex bothered her so much I had to pay 1000$ to get it covered up my ex And I only kissed nothing else. She made me stop going to exercise classes alone because she said I was looking at other girls and she made me stop talking to a Co worker because we were talking outside of work as friends and she saw messages. I love her should I leave or is love enough 

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  • 1 year ago

    Really? She TOLD you to do things and you did them? She is a control freak and you sound like you're pretty weak. Maybe grow a pair.

  • 1 year ago

    Doesn't sound like love's enough does it. She wears the pants in your relationship. You only kissed an ex and got a tattoo? That was foolish of you. Naturally, your present g/f doesn't like you having a tattoo of an ex on your body. You meekly had it removed at great cost. (actually not a bad thing). Next thing, this g/f will want you to have a tattoo of her (so that your next g/f can make you have that removed too.) Be your own person. She didn't 'make' you do anything. She moaned a lot until you did as you were told for a quiet life. She's needy and clingy and you enable her. Think what YOU want out of this relationship and if you aren't getting it, dump the relationship.

  • mokrie
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Yes she is controlling and it will get worse not better. RUN.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Are you a guy or a girl? I guess it doesn't matter, but you know, hope the sex is worth it. 

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  • 1 year ago

    99% of people (male or female) would be bothered by a tattoo of an ex

    The rest? 100% controlling, yes.

    She cannot keep you caged, as she would like. She either trusts you, or she doesnt. 

    As she doesnt, why bother?

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Her jealousy will drive you away. Try talking to her about trust because if she's going to be like that, she's going to have trouble keeping a boyfriend. 

  • 1 year ago

    If she continues to be controlling like that and ruining your social life with other people, then you should leave her

  • Rick B
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Of course that is controlling behavior. You can leave or stay, that is up to you. But, you need to stop allowing her to control you like that.

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