Was I wrong in this situation?
This guy I had been talking to for about 3 months (NOT BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND) We started to like each other and everything. We had been hanging out a lot. One time we spent three days in a row together for like 6 hours each day. We were supposed to hang out on the Sunday that just passed but he came down with a cold so I told him that we could reschedule. I cleared my whole day to hang out with him. I finished all my work the day before so we could practically spend the whole day together. But he canceled and I was at home bored so I posted on snap if anyone wanted to hang out because I didn't want to sit in the house starting at my phone for 24 hours. He saw it and got mad at me and was like "If you hung out with another guy blah blah blah" that wasn't my intention because I only talk to one guy and he's been my real good friend since the 9th grade and I never looked at him in a romantic way. Anyway So pretty much I apologized for it... when I really didn't have to... because I can hang out with other people other than the guy I've been talking to. He basically told me he was done. I then apologized like 2 more times and said that I didn't want us to be over because I really like him. But every time he left me on read. Then lat night I guess he posted a picture on snapchat with another girl with heart eyes under it. Anyways, was I wrong in anyway in this situation? I even apologized to just.... let us go back to talking because he was ignoring me (I'm 20 and he's 22)
- FoofaLv 71 year ago
Yes, you were wrong to apologize after he revealed himself to be a controlling hypocrite with double standards.
- StrandLv 71 year ago
You already know it wasn't wrong to hang out with other people. You were wrong to grovel and beg forgiveness. You have been seeing him for three months, it sounds like he has gotten comfortable enough to let the mask slip and show his true colors. This petty and jealous person is who he really is. Take him back and he will learn he can get away with treating you like garbage. This will get worse and you will get hurt. See this for the red flag it is and cut ties.