Does this mean I’m gender fluid?

So i was born a female and I am aware that I am a female and have been my whole life, but for the past few years it’s been different, whenever I do anything romantic or just randomly, I’ll imagine myself as a guy. But when I say I’m a girl who wants to be a guy it’s not bc guys are “luckier” or “don’t get periods” It just feels right sometimes to think of myself as a guy in guy clothes and I have worn male clothes before and have liked it, of course. But also sometimes I wear feminine clothing and think of myself as a female, it’s like I switch between. I usually wear feminine clothing tho, mostly bc my family is strict. So is this normal or am I a closeted gender fluid? How do I know for sure? Please help. 


More detail: sometimes I wish my chest was flat and other times I like having breasts. 

3 Answers

  • Anonymous
    10 months ago

    Well you are whatever you want to identify as I guess. But if you sometimes feel like you wanna be a guy and other time a girl I wouldn’t recommend getting surgery or anything cause you’ll probably change your mind also I have the same thing that’s weird sometimes I wanna be a guy and sometimes I wanna be a girl (I’m also a girl)

  • 10 months ago

    Maybe, maybe not. Don't get so hung up on labels

  • Anonymous
    10 months ago

    "I am aware that I am a female and have been my whole life"

    So no, you're not gender fluid. It sounds like you're honestly just going through a phase.

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