Anonymous
Anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 8 months ago

Is it normal that I can get sexually aroused when I’m by myself but not with a man?

I fantasise about all the things I’m going to do to my boyfriend but when I’m actually lying next to him I dissociate and I shut down when having sex 

Update:

I feel detached from reality when having sexual intercourse, almost like being half asleep 

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  • :)
    Lv 5
    8 months ago
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    This could be due to nerves and other environmental circumstances. This is way more common than you think, and I think I can relate on a small scale. It’s much easier to relax when you’re alone.

  • 8 months ago

    Maybe you're not attracted to him?

  • k w
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    maybe you simply fear getting pregnant ?!!! relax....learn to relax/chill......

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