Anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 4 weeks ago

Is it normal that I can get sexually aroused when I’m by myself but not with a man?

I fantasise about all the things I’m going to do to my boyfriend but when I’m actually lying next to him I dissociate and I shut down when having sex 


I feel detached from reality when having sexual intercourse, almost like being half asleep 

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  • :)
    Lv 5
    4 weeks ago
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    This could be due to nerves and other environmental circumstances. This is way more common than you think, and I think I can relate on a small scale. It’s much easier to relax when you’re alone.

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  • 4 weeks ago

    Maybe you're not attracted to him?

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  • k w
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    maybe you simply fear getting pregnant ?!!! relax....learn to relax/chill......

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