Why everyone assumes I'm weak just because I'm skinny and nice and not loud like them?
I'm 19 years old, 5'8 calm and a very nice person and been boxing since i was 15 but never told anyone about it cause i don't want people talking. My new friends which I met in September when college started were bullies back when they were in school hearing the stuff they did. They are so loud. They all keep telling me I should man up saying people will take advantage if I remain too nice like that. I just tell them ok.
Just wondering why everyone assumes I'm weak just cause I'm nice?
- wind_updollLv 72 months ago
Still waters run deep, and they’re confused by your demeanor. Stick with it, as you’ll go further than they will at this rate.
- Anonymous2 months ago
Hi, I'm like you only I'm 61 what your friends are telling you is very true. I have been abused for 60 years because I was too nice and believed I should be kind to everyone. Which I learned from being brainwashed by religion. Wise up you don't have to be a bully but don't be quite as nice.