Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 2 months ago

Why everyone assumes I'm weak just because I'm skinny and nice and not loud like them?

I'm 19 years old, 5'8 calm and a very nice person and been boxing since i was 15 but never told anyone about it cause i don't want people talking. My new friends which I met in September when college started were bullies back when they were in school hearing the stuff they did. They are so loud. They all keep telling me I should man up saying people will take advantage if I remain too nice like that. I just tell them ok.

Just wondering why everyone assumes I'm weak just cause I'm nice? 

2 Answers

  • 2 months ago

    Still waters run deep, and they’re confused by your demeanor. Stick with it, as you’ll go further than they will at this rate.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Hi, I'm like you only I'm 61 what your friends are telling you is very true. I have been abused for 60 years because I was too nice and believed I should be kind to everyone. Which I learned from being brainwashed by religion. Wise up you don't have to be a bully but don't be quite as nice.

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