Why did God give other people the ability to hurt me emotionally but not give me the same opportunity ?

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  • John
    Lv 5
    2 months ago

    Jehovah gave you a heart and gave them the decision to use theirs or not (Romans 13:1; Revelation 22:11). Don't let the problem escalate. That would only lead to trouble. Just le it go and learn from it.

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  • 2 months ago

    No, you gave them the ability to hurt you emotionally. As a child, of course, you didn't know any better, but now that you're grown, you don't have to let anybody live in your mind rent-free or give them power to make you unhappy.

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  • Raja
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    It is not God's work. Knowingly or unknowingly they have chosen such spirits to their lives therefore they are like that. You must not allow negative spirits in your life. The people who hurt you now will realize their mistakes one day. The life is not going to be the same forever. There will be changes. For good people the changes will be good.

    God’s involvement in human affairs is very rare. God doesn't watch each and every human being at the same time and cannot live with each and everyone to guide them. These works are done by the spirits. God had created different kinds of spirits for various purposes. He had made the spirits to watch, guide and determine the destiny of the human beings from their daily activities, talks and thoughts too. Your past determines your present and your present determines your future. God has given freewill to all creatures including human beings. According to this, all human beings have all right to live a life as they wish. But if it happens to be bad and hurts someone, they have to face the consequences. These consequences are created by spirits. It's a natural system. After death no one lives in any form. Heaven and hell are only for spirits, not for human beings. God is a mystery even to the spirits. Spirits are not eternal beings but their lifetime is long. Spirits are separate elements. A human being during his/her lifetime is living with many spirits which have joined one by one since birth. They are knowledge, skills, feelings, emotions, interests and everything. These spirits are your consciousnesses and memories. Even thoughts are not your own. For example, when you want to take a decision on a subject, one after another the spirits think and you just listen, choose or reject the ideas which they transmit to your mind through your brain in the form of thoughts. Brain is just a media to connect the spirits to your mind. A mind is just a computer's mind. A mind is you. After the destruction of a computer completely you will not get it's mind. The same is the case with the human beings.  A human being doesn't have a spiritual body. Soul is nothing but an energy needed for the functionality of a body. It is not a spirit or anything else. A body's functionality is based on the auto mechanism.  After death all spirits which accompanied a person quit and go to different places searching new bodies. No one lives in any form after death. All human beings are just robots made of flesh and bones and toys of the spirits for their games.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    What a croc....

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  • 2 months ago

    Back before Jesus was old enough to tie His own sandals, some PAGAN chap said

    "It is not what OCCURS, but how we CHOOSE to FEEL about it, which determines our happiness."

    Double-check your New Testament, and I assure you, there is NO PLACE where Jesus teaches His disciples "Hey, by the way, that old pagan was FULL of  5HIT!!"

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  • 2 months ago

    YOU and only you can give others the power to hurt you emotionally.

    • Jan C
      Lv 7
      2 months agoReport

      So easy to say but in the real World, even with love in your heart. it happens. 

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  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    Nobody can hurt you emotionally unless you choose to view it as a hurt!

    Why would you want to hurt others?

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  • 2 months ago

    God has nothing to do with it.

    Source(s): Greek Orthodox Chistian
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  • 2 months ago

    The Lord God tells you to not be offended by others, but to believe what He says about you.  Why do you listen to others, instead of listening to God?

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Because god is omniscient!   He knows what course of action to take. 

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