Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 4 months ago

Why do men who are successful good looking and wealthy have less success with women than gang members ?

For example, a ghetto gang member usually has children to multiple women and women everywhere in the ghetto wanting to get with him. He is the epitome of a useless father and abandons women left and right and women still want to be with him. Yet a guy who has his life together, had movie star good looks, is rich and is a good person can still struggle to find a decent women to date. I don’t get it 

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  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    In the United States, school uniforms are not mandatory in public schools.

  • 4 months ago

    Perhaps the 'Gang members', treat their girlfriends with respect, but are just committment shy.  Not all wealthy, good looking men are that nice or respectful, some of them are arrogant and vain and that's just not that attractive to many women, unless you want to attract the 'gold digger' types of women, there are plenty out there!  Usually people who are incredibly good looking,

  • 4 months ago

    "Why do men who are successful good looking and wealthy have less success with women than gang members ?"

    Much of this comes to women's free mating choices now.  As we moved away from the expectations of traditional behaviours from women into the feminist version, women have made many more worse choices than at any other time in history.  Women -used to- know a lot about men, and had systems in place under the traditional system.  Mothers used to teach their daughters, and a whole lineage of womanly knowledge was passed from generation to generation.

    That lineage was broken with feminism as the main ideology for women here in the West.

    With the resulting destruction of the traditional arrangements that harshly penalize men, especially with regards to marriage/divorce or even cohabitation, I think it's time we concentrate on teaching our boys to identity the pitfalls of engaging with women so that they won't be harshly affected over by bad women AND the government.

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    The short answer is they don't. But guys like that are more likely to go for quality over quantity and wouldn't be interested in the kind of human trash gangbangers attract. Turns out there are just fewer educated, successful women out there than there are "baby mama" generational welfare case types.

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  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    girls like the bad boys

    older women want the rich guy 

    the bad boys never pay support and kill you if you push too hard 

    the rich guy pays and the women move on with his money 

  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    Those "ghetto gang members" ( a lovely racialized ornament for your whining question) tend to be around "ghetto" women who are raised with similar values and often face similar hardships. 

    Stop acting like women always have the best of options available to them. "Pretty Woman" is a lie and lots of "ghetto" women aren't going to marry up or marry at all.

    Source(s): Men are idiots
  • 4 months ago

    Because successful men set their standards higher and actually want to have an adult relationship with the women they meet. Successful men date women who can share their interests and someone whom they admire as a good friend and who would potentially make a good mother. A date to them is not just a hookup or booty call.

  • Alesha
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    A lot depends on the girls the guy pursues, depends on where he meets them. The black guy picks up women where he meets them, if he's a gang man in  the ghetto that is largely where he will meet women. Most of the women living in the ghetto have limited choices in available guys, especially with money in their pockets. The black guys that actually make good, do something productive with themselves get out the ghetto, as soon as possible. The rich, handsome white guy usually gets his women where it goes to college, Harvard, Yale, Duke, Princeton. The few girls that make it into those topnotch universities are in the minority and can pick and choose among the best and the brightest.

  • Bill
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    The argument that money gets you women isn't false, but it is false to say that money gets you love. Plenty of rich guys end up with beautiful women only to get divorced and lose half of their stuff. 

  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    Not sure which world you live in but that's not true at all. Do you think celebrities struggle to find women? Most movie stars, singers/musicians, sports stars, wealthy business man are married and more often than not they're married to very beautiful women who come from a good background. 

    Ghetto gang members tend to date hood rats and trailer trash because they're the movie stars of the projects. But there are very few beautiful, educated, intelligent women beating down the doors of gang members to be with them, so consider the quality of the women they attract.

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