Why men have no say in abortion?
Man has seed, the baby comes from his seed. Woman has the fertille ground for that seed to grow, but that seed belongs to man and it's the man who should have a say in abortion because its his seed that's going to be destroyed, not the woman.
- PaulLv 74 months ago
The production of a baby involves 50% female genetic material (ovum) and 50% male genetic material (sperm). Since both are absolutely essential, one is not more important or more essential than the other. Once the baby is alive, the mother of course provides the first nine months of care. However, she is caring for the man's baby as well as her own baby, and neither of them has the right to brutally slaughter their son or daughter.
- 4 months ago
Wear a condom you useless child.
- Anonymous4 months ago
So you're saying once she aborts his seed from her body he wants it back in a cup or something?
- Christin KLv 74 months ago
You must be extremely ignorant about how the body works. You can't simply plant a man's sperm inside a uterus and it will grow into a baby.
ITS BOTH peoples' seed--not JUST THE MAN's. You need man's sperm and a woman's EGG. A man cannot engender a child without a woman--and a woman isn't an incubator. SHE CONTRIBUTES HALF THE DNA TO ANY PREGNANCY.
And she's the one who carries that child for 9 months. It's HER body that is stressed, traumatized or damaged if something goes wrong. Not his.
If a woman wants to ask a man's opinion about an abortion, fine. No one stops her. But to say that the pregnancy belongs to the MAN is just stupid. Abortion destroys BOTH seeds. Not just his.
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- Anonymous4 months ago
We don't have a say after the fact. That's why be need take charge and be careful who we choose to get pregnant before the fact. If we take more time to take build relationships, develope YOUR personal character, take precautions and screen the women we have sex with better based on her values, we won't have that problem.
It also helps to avoid dating feminists who tend not to value life as much as non feminist women. You'll have more say-so in what happens with non feminist women. You need to first make sure you're stuff is in order, don't screw irresponsibly, check your values, then examine her values BEFORE you impregnate her.
If she's the stubborn type and you don't want her to abort, use reverse psychology and order her to abort. She won't abort most likely just because you ordered her to do it. Later you can tell her it was a trick AFTER the baby's born.
If she's just scared and still has feelings for you, shower her with love and affection, gifts and let her see you'll be a good provider and she'll change her mind naturally but don't make it obvious that you're doing it for that reason. Don't do this for the stubborn feminist type. She'll just interpret it as weakness and she'll get off on the power of aborting and hurting you by doing so.
Even if you're the one that wanted the abortion and she doesn't you'll most likely get your way by expressing what you want either way and then leaving it up to her and take the pressure off her.
If she wants an abortion the problem is either she's just really messed up in some way, or she feels you're not going to support her, or you're a jerk in her eyes, she's too young, you're too young in her eyes, she has no feelings for you and doesn't want to be connected to you, you haven't been there for her or something like that.
Most of the time a woman bases her decision to abort on the father so there's a message there she's sending about you by considering an abortion because not many women would abort a baby with a guy she thinks is a great guy, rich or powerful, or super handsome, is going to provide for her every need etc, etc.
She'd have to be the super selfish, hardcore, lesbian, man hater, militant feminist type or an irresponsible crackhead or nimphomaniac type to abort a great guys baby. But a normal woman would never abort a baby with a guy that SHE THINKS is a great guy. Not many women abort the baby's of alpha males either whether they're good guys OR bad guys.
- Anonymous4 months ago
You can spread your seed anywhere else if you want a baby.
Even if the woman wants to give up the child for adoption, women have to develop the child through pregnancy. They won't even be able to work for most of it, have to change their lives where after their bodies have permanent changes. For nine months their lives are completely changed.
-MEN: can sow and continue to spread their seeds. If they made pregnancy happen, they have no physical changes and continue life without any changes or interruption.
If you want to illegalize abortion you also should make a law for the men who are responsible for impregnating the female. You want to control women but men don't have to deal with the consequences of their actions. It's messed up.
- OlifantJagterLv 44 months ago
Truthfully, from an empirical perspective men should have more of a say in it. The only argument I have seen here is the the overused phrase: ,,my body, my choice''. Imagine demanding to drink and drive because it's your car and your choice, it's an emotionally formed statement. If we put things in simplistic terms, females are the fields, men are the seeds, crops [children] are the result. Females play an important role in procreation; however, they are merely hosts for life to grow, they do not own the life within. When has the soil in the field decided which crops are grown within it?
- JesereLv 74 months ago
Women produce the egg, men are fertilizer.
- nineteenthlyLv 74 months ago
For the same reason a mosquito has no say in whether the person she bites should be treated for malaria.
- ElanaLv 74 months ago
That's a good laugh.
You think people are plants?