Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 month ago

If people never say or text they “miss a person ” or “miss seeing them” Does this mean that person is unwanted, disliked, & unloved?

No it is not me!!

It is from something I read today..

“That we as people need validation”

Do we?

Update:

Reported....

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  • J
    Lv 5
    1 month ago

    People who need constant validation are just needy and insecure. Some people like to constantly text people and some don’t. I don’t. It doesn’t mean I don’t care about my loved ones, it just means I don’t have anything important to say. I think neediness is one of the most unattractive qualities in a person. When someone is always expecting reassurance and validation, it becomes too much and makes me want to stay away from them. 

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  • Edna
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Who are you reporting; and for what reason? I seen nothing in any of these responses that needs to be reported.

    • Jeremy1 month agoReport

      The joe comment is not even pertaining to the question

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  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    i would hope not

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  • 1 month ago

    No, not at all. Plenty of people simply choose not to communicate by text, some assume that emotional/friendship/fondness  issues are implied, etc. 

    And no, no one "needs" validation", and one person can not give any meaningful validation to another. 

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  • 1 month ago

    Silence does not communicate anything.  People desire validation, but don't "need" it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    That's quite a leap to say just because someone doesn't write "miss you," means the person is "unwanted, disliked and unloved."

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  • 1 month ago

    No, it doesn't mean that, you're making an extreme assumption without basis. As for whether we need validation, SOMETIMES we do, and sometimes not. Some people need a lot, and others less. 

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  • 1 month ago

    No, there are other ways of showing that you miss someone, this is just one way people communicate it. 

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    I miss Joe... every time I throw rocks at him. I've really got to work on my aim.

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