Depressed after break up?
I met my ex last year & dated for 3mths, his mum told me she was glad he’d met a nice girl like me.
He never had money & told me he used his money on booze & cocaine every Saturday night.
I’m slim petite with long blonde hair & my ex wasn’t that good looking, and had a dad bod. He’d occasionally say he thought I was gorgeous/hot or that he liked my body & kept nudes of me on his phone & introduced me to his mates.
He has lots of hot girl mates & after 2wks of dating he was always on his phone texting them & then meeting up with them, while sitting next to me (I could see their picture on his Facebook). He’d randomly show me selfies of him & girl mates or go to show me something on his phone that already had some girls picture on there.
During the 3mths I never sex with him cause of the pics he showed me & I broke up with him. He cried & seemed genuinely devastated & told me he was still in love with me 3wks after we broke up. He said he didn’t do anything wrong. It’s been 4mths since we broke up & since I’v seen him. I have blocked him & changed my work days so I don’t see him.
4mths later I know he was bad but I still feel hurt & wonder why he did it. He made me feel like **** & I have flashbacks & wonder what he was talking about to those girls.
I feel jealous at the thought of him going out & hooking up with girls & still cry over it.
I wonder if he acted like this because he thought I wasn’t attractive/ good enough for him.
How do I let this stop affecting me?
- Anonymous3 months agoFavourite answer
He said he loved you after only dating for three months? It sounds like you dodged a bullet. What do you think he's going to do with your nude photos? You might want to give it some consideration.
- LANLv 73 months ago
Why are you depressed about no longer being a loser. Is your ego really that fragile or are you just fat and desperate for anyone to pretend to want you?