If your ex's divorce attorney or representative is being harsh and aggressive, do you blame your ex or their lawyer?

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  • 4 weeks ago

    Perhaps the blame belongs to the entire system.  A lawyer is expected to work for the benefit of their client and no one else.  Having lawyers involved in a divorce case is a really bad concept.  But you cannot blame the lawyer or the ex for a system that requires and permits this.

  • Tj
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    Both.where is your lawyer, when this is going On?

  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    This is pretty vague.  You wouldn't blame the atty necessarily, because he or she is just doing their job.  In most cases, this is considered a good atty, so your husband hired a good one. 

    Has it occurred to you may you'd blame YOUR atty?  It's common for divorces to get ugly, but your atty should be protecting you from this, or fighting back.

  • 4 weeks ago

    why does it matter? Will placing the blame on the correct person bring you some sort of benefit that you won't get if you incorrectly blame the wrong person?

    The simple fact is that they are both to blame, but blame won't help your situation.

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  • y
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    The lawyer is only doing what they are paid to do.

  • 4 weeks ago

    Your ex's lawyer is doing for him what your lawyer should be doing for you.  It's their job.  They have to do their best for their clients.  If his lawyer is being harsh and aggressive, tell your lawyer to tell him to stop bullying you.  That's what you pay him for.

  • Kieth
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    The lawyer does the job they were paid to do, that's why you need a lawyer too.

  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    Best if you Prayed To God about this! 

  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    I have no idea how "harsh" enters into this.  Aggressive is a word I well understand.  In some instances an attorney NEEDS to be aggressive, or the case would go on forever.  In theory the ex-spouse selected an aggressive attorney, possibly by reputation.

    Again, how does "harsh" enter into this?

    An attorney is duty bound to provide the best representation for his/her client.  I'd be curious about what you consider "aggressive" to mean.

  • A
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    Blame the person committing the offence

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