Could my boyfriend be gay?
I'm a guy, but am into straight men. He told me he was straight when we met, about 2 years back. We started going last year, he said he has dated several women, and said he was into women. He agreed to date me, and knows I'm gay. And said he likes me, for about 6 months of dating we finally had sex, it was his first time with a male. Lately i have been quite suss about him, he's wanting sex more often with me, and says he's getting more into gay porn. I'm starting to get turned off by it, cause I'm turned on and attracted to straight men, not gay men. He wants to make out with me all the time, and says he likes my penis and body. Did he lie to me about being straight? Or has he just developed being gay now? I kind of want to confront and break it off with him. He's also becoming a bit more feminine, when before he was pretty athletic and a bit macho, he used to check out girls, and flirt with them, but now he doesn't. What should i do about this?
Anyone else in the same positon as me? Any advice on what to do?
**going out last year
Its not a troll question. He said he was straight. How does he go from dating and having sex with woman to being full on gay? He never mentioned any bisexuality in him.
Well wouldnt some straight guy want to try out but not turn?
My honest fantasy is having sex with a straight guy, and he doesn't have to enjoy it. The first time we did it, he didn't seem comfortable at all, and was putting it off for a long time, i had to force it onto him one night. Thats how i was kinda wanting the
Relationship to be like
Also maybe some straight guys might want to be violated by a gay man, but the thought of a man sickens them.
How some woman want to be raped by their boufriend or by a stranger but hate the way it feels. If that makes sense
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- JakeLv 51 month ago
Stop trolling. You’re both gay. Nuff said.
- SkyLv 71 month ago
Assuming your anonymously posted story is true, it's not that he lied to you about being straight. It's more that he was lying to himself about being straight. At the very least he's bisexual, because a straight guy is not going to date another guy. Sexual experimenting or FWB sex, sure, but not dating and romance. It's much more likely that he was denying his sexuality and unable to accept it, but with time and experience he is starting to admit to himself that he's bisexual or fully homosexual (which one depends on whether he's actually attracted to women).
You don't need to "confront him" as if calling him out on a lie, but talk with him and listen to what he has to say. It may be that he still is having difficulty admitting to himself and to you that he's gay or bi. Don't push him, but instead let him accept it at his own pace. If he's going to continue insisting that he's straight then let him. The labels are not important. What is important is what sort of relationship you two have together, how much you love each other, and how much you enjoy sexual intimacy together.
BTW, sex should NEVER be forced in any way. It's critical that all involved fully want it to happen. There may be some apprehensions to push through, but the person with the apprehensions needs to actively want to overcome those fears and hangups. If you two enjoy role playing and pretending to have some kind of forced sex then fine, good on you. There's nothing wrong with enjoying fantasy and acting it out. But if it is genuinely being forced and one of you does not actually want to have sex then don't do it.
- I.C.WeinerLv 71 month ago
I don't get it. You "started dating" this guy and six months later you had sex. What did you expect when you were dating him ? What would you do differently if you were not dating him ?
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- Anonymous2 months ago
He could be bi I guess, or realised he was gay... but why do you like straight men? That’s confusing, how are you ever gonna date a straight man
- pasper2Lv 42 months ago
Are you kidding, he’s as gay as they come. Let me tell you an absolute truth. A genuinely straight guy will never have sex with another man, it doesn’t cross his mind ever, he would never even dream of kissing a dude because he finds the idea revolting. Sorry to have to burst your bubble but you have never nor will ever have sex with a straight guy, so give up on that idea now.
- 2 months ago
LOL, of all the dumb questions...
Ever heard of bisexuality, babe? It ain't rocket science! And because bi people can be attracted to people of BOTH sexes, and heteronormativity is such a strong force in society..? It's quite common for (some) bi people to just deny and suppress their gay side, and live a straight life, and think they're straight! Because after all, unlike gay people..? They DO also feel straight desire, and they CAN be happy in straight relationships! Me suspects that's more than likely what your boyfriend has been doing. Until you turned him on to his gay side, more. Which.. if he had been 100% straight, all along..? Obviously he would NOT have been into that! And he never would have fallen for you! But you helped him explore and come to terms with his (full) sexuality. Which is a very good thing.
Anyway... I know you fantasize about being with a straight guy. It's a hot fantasy, right? I guess it's kind of like the opposite of straight guys fantasizing about lesbians, and "converting" lesbians. (Almost always femme, gender conforming lipstick lesbians, mind you.) And what I always say to those guys..? Is: while it's a hot fantasy in their minds, for sure, it is actually completely f*cking ridiculously unrealistic! And what they want..? Is not actually a lesbian. But a bisexual woman!! Because a bisexual woman..? Can be interested in girls, while ALSO being interested in them! While a lesbian..? By DEFINITION won't be interested in them, in the SLIGHTEST!! And will reject ALL of their advances!! Which.. that's not actually what they want, at all. Same with you. You don't ACTUALLY want a guy that is 100% straight. As he would, by definition, not be attracted to you! And in fact, would probably be utterly repulsed by the mere concept of having gay sex! Not so hot now, is it..?
If I were you, I would appreciate your current boyfriend, and be really happy and grateful that he fell for you! Even to the point that he was willing to revise and update his understanding of himself, and his own sexuality! That's quite amazing! He must really, really like you! And your reaction is, you want to reject him for being into you, and for actually liking your body..? That is ridiculous!! As if you'd rather be with some guy who hated your body, and was SUPER grossed out by it, and in fact wouldn't touch you with a ten-foot pole..? Because that is what you're looking at, with a straight guy! <Sigh.>
..I really hope this is a troll question, anyway. It's certainly stupid enough to be a troll question.
- TjLv 72 months ago
years ago, I read something that said all men were a little gay, thats why we have men friends....who knows..........I think you just woke up his gay side, that he did not even think he had. What true straight man would have gay sex? If you dont want him, send him my way.