Boyfriend and I don’t have much in common is it doomed or a good thing? ?

So my bf and I just kinda talk about our day then watch tv then sleep! We have nothing in common no common interests only travelling which we can’t do at the moment. We are saving for a house but I’m thinking will I be happy with this forever? And is this normal as men and women are very different? Are most couples like this? We don’t find the same things funny we rely a lot on each other and have sex a lot and I think that’s good but should we have this best friend connection or is what I stated above enough for a happy life? 

3 Answers

  • Tj
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Is there something that maybe you both can share, even if its new to you both, like camping, hiking, visit a local park, a museum. Do you have any married friends to share movie night.

  • LizB
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Don't buy major property with someone you're not married to. Ever. 

    Also I can't imagine wanting to marry someone you don't enjoy spending time with. Sex may falter at some point for a variety of reasons, so if sexual chemistry is all you've got then that's not a good sign for the long-haul.

  • 1 month ago

    Unless you've been a contented couple for a minimum of two years (three is better!), do NOT sign your name on a huge loan with him for a house. Just don't do it. I don't know why you'd take that step unless you were married regardless. 

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