Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 month ago

How do you make it work in LDR?

With no intimacy as your partner is on the other side of the world how can this be in any way normal. How can one in a long distance relationship have trust the other isn't cheating?

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  • Jerry
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    I'm very skeptical on the idea of LDR. With a married couple that has already been together for many years and has a solid lifetime plan in place, the relationship can absorb the two being apart for a good reason like military deployment, work overseas, availability of affordable child care even. But when the two people haven't yet become committed and EXPERIENCED life time partners to one another, it's not likely they're going to BECOME such partners without being together a great deal. 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    I would think that having too much baggage and low-self-esteem wouldn't qualify you to engage in an LDR! 

  • T J
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    A LDR is just BS for not getting out there and finding someone face to face. They never work, you are fooling yourself,and you will be a very lonely person. Of course they will have sex with someone else, you are not together, and never will be...BTW..how can they be cheating? You are just a pc chat to each other. face the real world.

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