How do middle-aged men feel when teenage girls have a crush on them?

Question

Guys in their 40s-50s when a girl who is like 18-22 have a crush on them?

The girl doesn't openly flirt or act inappropriate but just like a surface-level crush.

Answer 1

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Any man with any sense ... by the time he is in his 40's or 50's understands that crushes are not love, and the stronger a crush is the worse an involvement would turn out to be. They might be flattered, they might think your crush is "cute" in a child-like way .. .but they won't want to become involved with you.  Mature men don't want get involved with a child, even if she looks grown up.

And the ones who do are either emotionally-damaged and impossible to live with .. or they are controlling and even abusive ... and the woman-child is easy to frighten and boss around, so that is why he likes her.

Answer 2

I don't feel something down below and I act on it.

Answer 3

Well, I would hope that she would act inappropriately, so that we could get it on.