misty asked in HealthWomen's Health · 2 months ago

Very nervous, about getting naked with bf for the first time.  How can I settle my nerves down ?

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  • shyguy
    Lv 4
    1 month ago

    Is this your first time?  If so there are a lot of considerations besides getting nude.  Read up on first time sex about what you should do.  Make sure you are comfortable and in a safe place with no possible interruptions, a pad if you are a virgin, etc.  low lights lots of kissing etc before the clothes come off. 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Honestly, unless you have a second head hidden under there or something, just chill and enjoy it. Chances are your bf is just as nervous about getting naked with you for the first time, if not more nervous.

  • adam
    Lv 5
    1 month ago

    smoke some weed. You will be just fine 

  • 1 month ago

    honestly, if you're of legal drinking age, get a little bit tipsy and then start feeling each other up. After you've done it the first time you'll realize that there is nothing to be nervous or insecure about when you're with someone you love and the next time you won't even need the liquid courage.

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  • 1 month ago

    Use low light background.  Practice in the mirror imagining it's him watching.

  • 1 month ago

    Have you considered how nervous your boyfriend might be in revealing his body to you?   What if his musculature isn't adequate for your preferences?  What if he doesn't have enough body hair?  Maybe his skin isn't clear enough?   Then there is the big one—or maybe it isn't big enough?

  • Carrie
    Lv 4
    2 months ago

    Wait until he's your husband. Makes all the difference in the world.

  • 2 months ago

    One word...

    Alcohol.. ;)

  • 2 months ago

    masterbate each other to get used to your bodies.

  • Tavy
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    A few glasses of wine and low lights. Few men have perfect bodies. Remember that,

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