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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 2 months ago

Does this seem like he's possibly thinking about leaving someone to start something new?

If you have known that an older guy has secretly liked you for years but he has been with someone for years and has kids with them. He has never mentioned if he's with anyone but let's assume he's been with the mother of his kids since the eldest kid so that's like 10yrs. The relationship may be reaching the end or having problems, I don't know. He has had his attention on you for a long time like he's been crushing on you and has started opening up to you about his kids and things going on in his life, starts being more obvious that he has feelings for you with the way he treats you, looks at you and behaves when you're around, without crossing the line into cheating. Does that seem like he's possibly thinking about leaving someone to start something with you?

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  • 2 months ago

    Doesn't sound like it to me. You don't know if he lives with his wife/mother of his children. You don't know if their relationship (even if there is a relationship) is in trouble or over. He's stared to speak with you about his life... but apparently not much (!) despite the fact you've known him for years. Have you been showing this man that you are interested in him? Men with a family have been known to seek other women's attentions without it meaning, in any way, that they are going to ditch their family. 

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