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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 2 weeks ago

How can I get over being called so ugly all my life that no one would marry me?

I've been called ugly since I was a child by both friends and family and many have said no one would marry because of it. I am now engaged to a very kind man but I'm still feeling like I'm not pretty enough for him....

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  • 2 weeks ago

    Everyone could use some improvement in how they look, and could achieve it. Take inventory on what needs "fixing" and what you might wish to do about it. You may also wish to try a little counseling, since this self image you have seems embedded with long standing. Good wishes, most of us , and probably you included, fall within the "average range".  

  • i + i
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    If you're not pretty enough, then are 

    you thinking he proposed with some 

    ulterior motive? Does he know of your 

    inferiority complex? It's VERY important 

    both of you know and understand what 

    makes each of you tick, what is going on 

    in each others heads, if you want to have 

    any chance for the marriage to succeed. 

    TALK to him about it and figure things out 

    together (and maybe also consider getting 

    counseling, because it's not usually a thing 

    you just get over on your own one day). 

  • Damien
    Lv 6
    2 weeks ago

    well stop being ugly then , get surgery on your face, stop being fat, if u cant take care of your hair, dont bother growing it, fix those bushy eyebrows, look at your blackheads, etc.

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